I hate it when it's my fault. I think everyone does, and I also hate that moment when you realize the common denominator in all the drama is, in fact, you. Dang it. Your words hurt someone. Your actions destroyed a relationship. Your attitude is responsible for the majority of the anger being thrown in your face. I think we all like to play the martyr. If someone reacts to the stones we're throwing, we are so shocked that they throw them back in our faces with a handful of tacks. We then escalate the situation. We never stop to consider what provoked the attack. Us.
That being said, some people just collect chaos around them. They seem to function in the eye of the hurricane like it's normal, and they have to enjoy it on some level of consciousness. I don't know what it is about these people that draws the crazies out and to them, but it happens. They can be dating relationships (though I'm convinced there is a certain amount of enabling that goes on in those snafus,) or just in their daily interactions with family and random people. As soon as I figure out how it is possible to do that, and not lose your last mind, I'm writing a book, and selling it for large sums of money.
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